Wednesday, January 12, 2011

pain to passion

I am a firm believer {not to mention living proof} that as humans, it is often out of our deepest pain that we find our greatest passions. Those passions often lead us to finding our greatest purposes in life, too. We have to allow this to happen and not everyone is ready for that process. To dig deep into the crappy parts of pain. To seek lessons through tears of grief. To reach out to other hurting souls when it seems our own private pain will never be dulled. But...if we do those things, I believe God blesses that and mourning becomes dancing. What was once so raw and painful turns into something more beautiful than a human mind or heart could ever create.
My college friend, Kelle is also living proof of this. Almost a year ago she and her husband welcomed their second daughter, Nella. I can not imagine the emotions they faced when they learned Nella had Down syndrome. Kelle, true to who I knew her to be many years ago, did not allow that pain to overcome her. She battled through the grief and the fears...and discovered a deep passion and purpose. She shares beautifully about their life here.
With Nella's first birthday around the corner, Kelle established a fund to give back to the NDSS. Her goal was big...so she thought. I have been inspired by the hearts of people as we have watched the dollar amount rise. You can read about it on her blog, and if you want to contribute go here.
I remember talking about hopes and dreams with Kelle {as we scrubbed down dentist equipment}. I think it's safe to say neither of our lives followed the path we had anticipated, but there is beauty in pain, and purpose in knowing we are right where we were meant to be. Support this cause in whatever way you are able...share it with friends. And then watch as the goodness in people shines...or maybe it is our common pain developing a greater passion.
{In case you were wondering...our family DID celebrate Christmas and we DO have pictures to share...more soon!}

2 comments:

Amy said...

You know Kelle Hampton?!?! I love her blog. Nella was born right after Grace and I have cried many a tear over her posts.

Kelle said...

Tears. Who woulda thought, eh? Thank you, Friend. I love my memories of Dr. Waterson's office. Ha ha. I love my memories of your little apartment and all the fun we had. I love that we share stories of pain transformed to beauty.

Love you. xoxo